Bonded D/s relationship management platform

Your dynamic,
structured.

Rules with evidence. Tasks with deadlines. Limits both of you can see. One private platform for power exchange relationships.

Free forever. No credit card.

The problem

A dynamic without structure is a dynamic waiting to drift.

Rules get forgotten. Evidence goes untracked. Nobody knows where things stand.

You've tried spreadsheets. Shared docs. Habit trackers built for morning routines, not power exchange.

We had rules in a Google Doc, tasks in Todoist, photos in a secret album, and check-ins over text. I spent more time managing the tools than the dynamic.

Dom(me), 3 years in D/s

Bonded was built for this.

Features

Purpose-built tools for power exchange.

Rules & Evidence

Set the standard. See it met.

Create standing rules with photo, video, audio, document, or text evidence requirements. Daily, weekly, or monthly — on the schedule you define. Your sub sees what's due. You see what's delivered.

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Rules list with evidence status indicators and due dates

Tasks

Evidence. Lines. Timers. Games. Quizzes.

One-off assignments with five task types: evidence submissions, written lines (tracked for errors), timed endurance challenges (tracked for interruptions), mini-games that test reflexes, and quizzes that test knowledge. Each with a deadline and detailed completion report.

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Task creation panel with type options

Chastity

Lock. Track. Control.

One-tap lock and unlock with a live countdown timer. Full session history, lifetime statistics, and a Dom(me) note that stays visible the entire time.

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Chastity timer showing session duration and lock status

Limits

Your boundaries. Clearly defined.

Both members independently classify activities across 23 categories — hard, soft, curious, or neutral. Each person controls only their own column. Changes are flagged instantly.

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Limits table with colour-coded classifications

Diary

A shared record of every day.

Daily reflections from the submissive. Evidence submissions with Dom(me) review. Acknowledgements, comments, and resubmission requests. Nothing gets missed.

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Diary view with submitted evidence and Dom comment

Chat

Always connected.

Real-time private messaging within your dynamic. Push notifications when you're away. Available on every page.

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Chat conversation view with message bubbles
See all 10+ features

Budget tracking, shared files, wishlist, timeline, and more.

How it works

1

Create your dynamic

Sign up, choose your role, and invite your partner with a code or email. Takes two minutes.

2

Set the structure

Define rules, evidence requirements, limits, budgets, and schedules. Make expectations explicit.

3

Track devotion

Submit evidence, write reflections, complete tasks. Review, acknowledge, and guide. Everything logged.

Privacy

What happens in your dynamic stays in your dynamic.

Connect by partner code or email — either way, your email is never visible inside the app. Display names you choose. Encryption at rest and in transit. Temporary file links. Automatic evidence deletion.

Delete your account and everything goes with it. No archives. No backups you can't reach. Gone.

On mobile (coming soon): biometric lock and a panic button that instantly overlays a fake spreadsheet.

My D/s spreadsheet was in the same Google Drive as my work files. One screen-share away from a career-ending moment.

Submissive, long-distance dynamic

Pricing

One subscription. Your whole dynamic benefits.

If anyone in your dynamic subscribes, the features unlock for everyone. No per-seat pricing.

Free

$0

One dynamic, 10 rules, photo & text evidence, chat, limits, 7-day diary lookback.

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Premium

$9.99/mo

Video evidence, budgets, chastity, lines, timer & game tasks, unlimited rules, 1 GB storage.

Pro

$29.99/mo

Unlimited dynamics, cross-dynamic notepad, task templates and library, shared wishlist, unified chat with context panel.

Your dynamic deserves this.

Free to start. Takes two minutes.

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